It went smoothly and painlessly. It went OK considering that I was ill on MC for 2 months last year and being new in this industry. What can I expect .... more? Not just yet.
My boss commented on my soft issues. One of them was, I am too soft!! (??) Me soft? Hmmm Not harsh enough? In my previous dept, I get discriminated from one of the bosses when I was on the phone on a private call and screaming on the person the other side because he was not complying to my requirements. Here .... I am expected to be more harsh and .... BITCHY!! Yep... my boss told me to be more BITCHY!! Its a totally different culture .... I like!.....
Woooo hooaaaa .... best lah ini macam... semua orang I bole taram. And nobody will condemn.
Its not my nature... I am a pushover. Tak bole bawak negotiation punye ... fail sial.
My boss said, "Notice that the MD likes people who are short tempered. They are aggressive. They get promoted fast". I remember a colleague of mine telling that he was shouting on the phone at one of those time sharing marketing people, telling them to piss off and did not realise that the MD was standing right next to him grinning! (Our MD is very small and quiet. You won't realise it when he is standing right behind you!)
So, with the new financial year ... resolution would be ... BE MORE BITCHY ... at work lah .. at work je ...
NOTE: Ok lah... since ada criticism ... biar aku tambah sikit .... Bitchy to strong sikit kuttt... those are my word actually. Saja nak sensationaliseeeee....
Lets put better words in .... AGGRESSIVE ..... sounds better?
Also to note: To be more BITCHY / AGGRESSIVE ... not to colleagues sesame sendiri tau .... to suppliers and clients.
Message was, to be more aggressive to outside parties ... don't let people take advantage of your position (position in the market tau.... bukan position in the office)
OK? Over and out
8 comments:
Your Boss's statement is the stupidest thing I have ever heard.
No wonder the whole organisation is in such a mess.
On the contrary, where I am is the most well run organisation I've been in so far. Very driven, goals are set and clear. Definitely very different from the previous places I've been.
lin,
congratulations!! so bonus 6 months laa ya this year?!!!
take the middle path....trust me, been there....
ppl hv feelings....regardless whether they are our peers or our suppliers...or even our "enemy"...
and "ownership" does not mean treating ppl like their salary come from our pocket...
i may not be a high achiever to the eyes of some management but i know where i am heading...hv been to more professional and better places...
justr my 2 sen laa...
congrats again sis!
eh eh .... bila pulakkkk kita bole dapat bonus 6 bulan nihhh. Kalau I dapat 6 bulan, u pun sama tau.. across the board what.
Yes yes I must say, apparently there has been a lot of criticism about where I am now. Panic I masa nak transfer.. but I am pleasantly surprised.
Lin,
It's not healthy for you la... don't!!! Don't be harsh and nasty unnecessarily. Doesn'y hurt to be nice, kan?
And Torque, am dreaming for the six month bonus from this moment... wah...
AHAHAHAHA!!
Wei! Who says I am dreaming for 6 months bonus? Aren't we getting it for sure?
(ooppss....alamks ai!! just realized...that amount is not coming frm the company we are all in lah...sorry!!)
Lin!! Wahlauweiii!! Suddenly got disclaimer note meh?!! Ahahahah!
HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND OK PEOPLE!
Hiya there! Am wondering if you would mind if I linked you up (actually have already done so but if you're not happy about it, I can take it down in a jiffy!)
Jamie - Hehe yalah.. I am so stressed out thinking on how to put my foot down. I memang kena taken advantage punye ... I just have to work on at least not to be a pushover.
Torq - Must lah ...kalau company kita bagi kita 6 bulan .. kita buat kenduri kesyukuran sama sama k... big one...kita organise . You, me, Jamie ..
Min - I'll be so honoured!! Thank you for linking me up :D
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